What does he actually think of you?

Testimonials

• He left three weeks ago and I was rereading everything at 3am. Brandon found the exact week he started pulling away and explained what I kept excusing. It said the love was real and the capacity wasn't. I finally slept.

• Eight months of “we're not anything” and I couldn't tell if I was crazy. Brandon read our chat and put the whole pattern on one page: who initiated, who disappeared, what I said yes to. The second report told me what to do about it.

• Two countries, a five-hour time difference and one fight we kept having in different costumes. Brandon named the fight. We read the report together on a call and actually laughed, then talked properly for the first time in months.

• Twelve years, two kids, and a WhatsApp thread that had become a logistics desk. Brandon read it like a neutral witness: what we stopped saying, when, and why. Harder than couples therapy and more useful. We've started talking again.

• Three dates in and she'd gone quiet. I wanted to know if I was reading too much into it. Brandon said I wasn't, showed me exactly where the energy dropped, and told me what to send and what not to. I came back for report two before the next date.

• He wants to try again and I didn't trust my own memory anymore. Brandon went through the whole first round: who broke what, who apologised, who came back for what. I asked for the odds and he gave them. Not the answer I hoped for, and the right one.

• Honestly we uploaded it for a laugh. The awards section roasted us both and my girlfriend read it out loud. Then the last part got quiet and very accurate about how I go silent when I'm stressed. We're keeping it.

• We call each other every night and he still says we're “just friends”. I needed someone outside my head to read it. Brandon told me what he actually does versus what he says, and what I keep doing. Not easy to read, but I stopped guessing.